antagonism

sumtimes i relli wonder y sum ppl antagonize others. its not like dat sum1 did sth bad to u or ath. u juz antagonize them because ur frens do. i personally tink dat its downright silly to do so. hating or bad mouthing sum1 based on wad ur frens tell u. esp when its obvious ur fren is oledi biased towards dat person. i have always believed in trusting sum1 until dat person proves themself untrustworthy. as a result, im easily conned. but i prefer dat to goin around lookin sideways at ppl n deciphering wad they say. is there no more innocence left in this world? trust, so easy to say, so hard to do. be more open ppl! its easier living ur life as an open book rather than keeping secrets from others. without secrets ther'd be no more fear of betrayal.
then there r those who act all nice in front of A and then when B expresses 'beh song-ness' of A they imeediately start slamming A. sheeshhhhh if u hate A soo much y bothering acting all sweet in front of A. n dun say dat u have to. theres no such thing as dat esp towards sum1 u dun like. at worst juz tolerate dat peron la. dun have to go to the extent of sucking up to them. bloody backstabbers.
*sigh* none of dis has happened to me yet, but nowadays i see it happening so often dat i cant stand it anymore. i mean hell, we're in form5!! not primary5! dis is our last yr. we shud be trying our best to cement ties. not break them!