influence

i've realised dat im very easy to influence... like ppl start talking a certain way or start using certain words n i start doing the same things... izzit good or bad?

bad:
-no stance or firm beliefs
-easily swayed
-accused of being a fake
-split personality

good:
-can easily adapt to diff situations
-can understand y ppl do the things dat they do
-not the odd 1 out all the time

i guess dats more bad than good huh?
but its juz they way i am... n i like me.

y do ppls opinions matter so much? y do ppl always wanna fit in with the crowd? y is sth bad juz coz it goes against the norm? is money relli everything? y do u pay so much attention to wad im saying dat u miss out on wad im NOT saying? since when was it wrong to be able to see both sides of the coin? how can sum1 who is more well off then me say dat i've nvr experienced hardship n dat i dun understand it? how come ppl always ask whether the glass is half full or half empty? (if its a drink i like then its half empty, it its a drink i dun like then its half full... does it relli have anything to do wif optimism?) y is it so wrong to be optimistic? y am i even asking y?